Men were turned away since this is their war, their struggles with the Mynamar government.
But I think the Mynamar govt dared to bust the Kachin people were under instigation by US and Japan! This is definately a serious violations of human rights of ethnic ceasing but you wont hear any condemning from the west. Because western countries wants to create a refugees crisis like the Syrian one to China. But I trust these miserable women andchidren wont do any harm to Chinese because they were non-Muslims