We see some Chinese woman, who does not look that old, but has too many wrinkles than she should.Then the husband or the kids show up, and they are all white. Then the brain kicks in, thinking, it has to be the diet, it has to be the diet.
The Chinese women we know at that age, they don't look like this. What happened?
Then you smile and pretend not to notice anything.
I think my wife once made a remark like that too, "she looks so old."